Conscious Relationship Counsellor
Helping women to untangle the roots of anxious and avoidant relating, reclaim their inner safety, and create the deep, secure relationships they long for.
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Work with meWhat This Work Is
You already understand your patterns. You can name your triggers. You know where your boundaries should be. But knowing and embodying are different territories entirely.
This work meets you in the gap—where your nervous system still reacts before your wisdom can respond. Where you intellectually understand healthy relating but find yourself repeating familiar dynamics. Where you want to speak your truth but something in your body shuts down.
We work with what lives beneath the understanding. The somatic patterns. The attachment templates. The parts of you that learned to protect in ways that no longer serve. Not to eliminate them, but to integrate them consciously.
This is relational work—practiced in real time, in the space between us, in the moments where your old strategies surface and we meet them with curiosity instead of judgment. It's shadow work that doesn't bypass the light. It's nervous system repair that honors the intelligence of your defenses.
The goal isn't to become someone new. It's to embody who you already are when you're not performing, protecting, or proving your worth.
Apply to work with meI'm, Melissa Evans-Snow
Inner work, Somatic facilitator, Conscious Relationship Counsellor, and Attachment Specialist.
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I work with women from all walks of life - mothers, healers, entrepreneurs, those in traditional careers and those forging their own paths.
For 7 years, I've trained extensively with world-class mentors including Peter Levine, Richard Schwartz, and Dr. Scott Lyons in integrative somatic trauma therapy, Internal Family Systems, and attachment theory.
But this work isn't just professional for me - it's deeply personal. I know what it's like to hide in closets, crying until you can't breathe. To sacrifice your most important relationships while chasing approval that might never come. To be trapped by anxiety and patterns that no amount of understanding could break.
Until everything changed.
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 How We Work Together
My work brings you into deep self-awareness and embodied practice so you no longer settle for relationships that require you to abandon yourself. Whether you're navigating family dynamics, partnership, or your relationship with yourself, you can have more.
What I guide you through when you work with me...
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Nervous System Work
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This is where lasting change happens. We work with your body's wisdom to create new felt experiences of safety, boundaries, and authentic connection. You learn to trust your nervous system's signals instead of overriding them.
Attachment Patterns
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Identify how your early relational templates are showing up now. Understand the root of your most painful dynamics - the people-pleasing, the over-functioning, the desperate need for approval - so you can choose differently.
Shadow Work
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Uncover the unconscious motivations driving your patterns - the parts you've been taught to hide, the gold buried in what you've rejected about yourself. We don't eliminate these parts; we integrate them consciously so they stop running your life from the shadows.
Relational Integration
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Practice speaking your truth without collapsing or attacking. Set boundaries that come from your body, not your guilt. Learn to repair instead of retreat, to stay curious instead of defensive.
Ways to work together
Individual Deep Dive Containers
3-6 month journeys for women ready for sustained transformation. This is where we do the deep relational work of integration - moving from knowing your patterns to embodying new ways of being.
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Monthly In-Person Groups
Intimate gatherings where healing happens in community. Practice being seen without performing in the safety of witnessed connection.
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Reclaiming Self Group Program
A guided journey back to yourself in the company of other women doing the deep work of conscious relating and inner integration.
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 Client love
Let Others Inspire You.
Working with Melissa felt like exhaling for the first time in years. I’ve spent so much of my life bracing, trying to manage how I come across, trying to hold everything together. In this space, I didn’t have to do that. I could bring the messy parts, the scared parts, the unsure parts—and it was all welcome. That’s what made it possible to actually shift things. I’m learning how to stay with myself now, even when things feel hard. That’s huge for me.
Lynn. S
 Former client, 1:1 mentorship
I was nervous about being in a group at first, but honestly, hearing other women speak out loud what I thought I was the only one feeling... that changed me. The way Melissa guided us felt steady and real. Nothing was forced. No one was trying to fix each other. It was more like: let’s meet ourselves here, together. I left feeling more connected—to myself and to other women—than I’ve felt in a long time.
— Allison. R
Group participant, Reclaiming Self
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