The Loneliness of Staying in Relationships for Security

Security can look like many things — financial stability, the comfort of routine, or even the familiarity of another person’s presence. At first glance, these elements seem essential for a stable life. But when security becomes the foundation of a relationship rather than connection or emotional intimacy, it often comes with an unspoken cost: the quiet ache of loneliness.

When we prioritize survival — whether it’s paying bills